Having a first date comes with much anxiety and expectations. As a man, you want to create a lasting first impression in the lady's mind. Most women judge their potential lovers-to-be based on their first impression of the men. Logically speaking, the first date calls for preparations regarding what to wear, your physical appearance, your behaviour, etc., all of which aim to create a good impression of yourself. More than that, your appearance gives you the confidence to face the woman you're with. Here are specific issues you must pay attention to during your first date:

Dressing: The first impression matters. Apart from your facial looks, your date pays attention to your clothes. You might not have that George Clooney look, but you cannot afford to dress shabbily. Your dressing compensates for whatever you may be lacking facially. You must dress in a manner that gives your partner the impression that you take them seriously. Equally, how you dress during the first date shows the lady or guy how much respect you have for her/him. However, please do not overdo it; dress sharp but not too extravagantly. Yes, women care about appearance, but everything has to match to give the girl a responsible impression of you.

Remember, your attire should be guided by the type of date you're on. Whether it's a casual lunch, a formal dinner, or a relaxed outing, your outfit should reflect the occasion and show that you respect your partner's preferences. Opt for dark denim jeans or a khaki paired with a good polo shirt, avoiding sports clothes or plain blue jeans for a casual date. Dressing appropriately not only shows respect for the occasion but also for your partner's preferences.

For a Dinner date, consider wearing a jacket or blazer. Look for a blazer jacket for evenings or events that do not require a suit. A sports jacket can complement a casual dinner date, but avoid wearing sports trousers.  Of course, there is nothing wrong with taking the jacket off if and when necessary, for example, if the weather is unbearably hot.

Pay attention to your grooming routine. Your haircut should align with your usual style, and it's best to stick to your trusted style and barber. Avoid experimenting with a new look; a lousy haircut could spoil your first impression. Remember, your grooming routine is crucial to your preparation, helping you feel confident and ready for your date.

The shoes do the talking, so make sure you choose the right shoes because, believe it or not, women pay attention to them. Of course, the type of date determines the choice of shoes. Go for dark brown leather lace-up shoes with a rounded toe for a dinner date and perhaps sneakers for a casual date. Whatever kind of shoes you are wearing, make sure they are clean and neat.

Belt. It might sound strange, but your belt says a lot, and many women notice that. Your belt must rhyme with your shoes and (the colour of) the rest of your clothes.

Cut your nails. They must look clean and well-cut. Women pay attention to your finger, which might reveal much about your character.

Perfume: Let your cologne or scent say more about you. Many women place you in a particular class based on how the perfume you wear. Moreover, your scent creates attractiveness. The same could be said about your aftershave or the perfume you wear. Create an identity of yourself. However, please do not overdo it. Let the perfume not be too aggressive; otherwise, it could be counterproductive.

Be punctual. Arriving late to your first date is not an option. It's better to be early than late because being late and keeping your date waiting sends a message of disrespect and disorganization. Being on time shows you value your partner's time and consider their schedule. It's a simple yet powerful way to make a good impression and show respect and consideration for your partner's time.

Gift or Present: Surprise her with a gift. It might not be costly, but that thoughtfulness leaves a good impression; even a bunch of flowers speaks volumes. Women like surprises and your present may leave a lasting impression on their minds.

Too much alcohol: The purpose of a date is to have fun and get to know each other better. That calls for better interaction. In most cases, women pay attention to your behaviour during a date. You may want to drink a glass of wine or beer, but drinking a lot could affect your social behaviour, which may send an alarm bell to your partner. Try to avoid using drinks to enhance your socialization.

Listen more, talk less. Being a good listener is a sign of respect and engagement. It shows your partner that you value their thoughts and feelings. Allow them to speak, listen attentively, and show your approval. Remember, a simple smile or nod can go a long way in creating a positive image. Just be careful not to overdo it, as it can come across as insincere. Engage in the conversation and show your respect through active listening.

Pay attention to the use of the cutleries. How do you hold the knife, fork, spoon, etc? Which cutlery comes first? If your date involves eating in a restaurant where you have different course menus, start with the cutlery "outside." Often, tables in a restaurant are set so that forks are placed on the left-hand side while the knives and spoons are on the right. If your cutlery drops on the ground, do not pick it up; instead, ask for a new one.

Bill: Offer to pay the bill. Many women judge your type of person based on this little offer, and they appreciate the offer anyway. However, some women may consider it a slap on their dignity to allow a "stranger" to pay for her; as such, they might insist they pay their bill. You may try to persuade her otherwise, but depending on her persistence, do not give her the impression you do not respect her wish.

Escort her to the taxi. This gives her the impression that you care about her and make her feel safe and secure in your hands. Generally, women like attention, and making them feel essential and protected is not bad. If you are with your car, suggest giving her a lift. Please don't give her the impression you want to know where she lives by trying to give her a lift. Women like to be given enough time. She will definitely tell you where she lives once she feels the time is ripe for that. So don't rush it.

Safe arrival: If she returns with a cab, call her briefly or send her an SMS to ascertain that she has reached home safely. Such an inquiry could do great magic; it gives a lady the impression you care about her safety, making her feel safe with you.

Good luck with your first date!